My name is Jessica, I have been a widow for five years and a mother of two children. After the death of my husband I was constantly busy with my work and the kids. The children were much younger and I filled my days with doing school work, social activities with the kids and more. Whenever I was on the street with the kids, I sometimes could have a good chit chat with nice gentlemen, but until now I didn't had a real date, there was no question of it. Now my daughters are a little older and need less attention. Especially in the last year I have noticed that the urge for a love partner is getting bigger. I have searched online how I could get rid of this feeling, but the best thing is that you also learn to love yourself and that you open yourself up to be loved. I then started searching the internet for suitable dating sites and came across two sites that seemed interesting to me. For my bad luck I chose a different site, but the service was so bad and I received no messages. Also on the messages I sent, there was hardly any answer and when I received an answer, the answer did not always correspond with my message, it seemed fake profiles. I then decided to delete my account and take a chance on this site. And yes! On this site I have nice contact with a number of gentlemen from the first day on. In the beginning I was only looking for new friendships, but later on I started liking a gentleman so much that I want more. So you notice that if you are a member of a good dating site, finding a partner is possible.